Her face positively glowed with relief. “Oh you DO have one of those!” she said, pointing
to the toilet. Other anxious faces would
appear throughout the summer as non-sailing friends joined us for their
first sailing experience, a bit concerned about how they would eat, sleep, or
charge their cell phones.
I’m always
surprised by the questions we get asked about the sailing life. Things that seem so familiar to us after
almost 12 years of cruising are unknown to most people, as they were to us when
we began this venture.
Here, in no
particular order, is a primer on what it’s like to live on a sailboat.
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| Our "house" may be small, but you should see our backyard... |
How do you go to the
toilet? Let’s just get this one out of the way first,
shall we? Yes, we DO have a toilet, and it even looks like
a normal one The flushing mechanism
is a sort of hand pump that draws in seawater and then pumps it all out again
at the flick of a mechanical switch. The
contents go into a holding tank (Ellen at the Cynical Sailor has cleverly
dubbed this the “PPB”, or the Pee and Poo Box). The PPB can be emptied into the sea
by opening a valve when you’re away from port and the coast. Each boat has its own rules about toilet
paper but we adopt the most conservative approach: nothing goes into the toilet
unless it has passed through your body first. Nothing stops up a toilet
mechanism faster than paper, and nothing is worse than having to unblock
it. A small trash can sits next to the
toilet and all paper goes here. And no, it doesn’t smell. It gets emptied frequently and has a
lid. You can also put small strips of
fabric softener in the can if you want to make sure there are no offending odours.
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| Relief in sight. Everything's going to be okay. |
Where / how / what do
you eat? How do you buy groceries?
Our eating is actually very similar to the way we eat at home. We have a refrigerator (and if we crank up
the power, a small freezer) and a stove with 2 gas burners and an oven. The originality
of a boat stove is that it is on gimbals, which means that it stays horizontal
even if the boat is heeling over at an angle.
This feature, along with clamps, keeps your pots securely on the stove while
you plough through the waves.
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| Coffee on the go... |
When we’re
in port, we head for the local markets and grocery stores, so we have fresh
food every few days. We also tend to eat
out in local restaurants. You can learn
a lot about a culture by eating “local” and it’s one of our favourite things
about traveling. On longer passages or
in more remote areas, we may have to tap into the canned food, but that’s
pretty rare for us. When we’re actually
sailing, we tend to eat a simple sandwich that will suffice until we pull into
port and can fix a regular meal, or one-dish meals (spaghetti, stew, etc) that
are easy to manage on a rolling boat. And there’s always mackerel out there,
waiting to be filleted into fresh sushi !
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| Buying local goods on Brehat island. Just take what you want and leave the money in the honesty box ! |
Do you have
electricity on board? One of the first things friends
ask when they join us on Mareda for the first time is “Is there someplace where I can charge my phone?” Yes. We have circuits for 220 volts (European standard
power) and 12 volts like you have in your car.
The batteries are recharged by the boat motor alternator (just like your
car) as well as by plugging into shore power when in port or by the solar
panels. We have a sensor that tells us
how many amps we’re using at any given time and the state of charge of the
batteries. We watch this carefully when
we’re at sea or on a mooring away from shore power to make sure we’re not
draining the batteries.
Do you sail at
night? Can you just throw out the anchor
to stop the boat when you get tired of sailing? No, you
can’t stop the boat just anywhere for the night, which means you sometimes do
have to sail all through the night (or several nights, or days, or
months). Most boat anchors and chains
are only useful for anchoring in 10 meters (~ 33 feet) of water or less. Away from the coast in deeper water, the
anchor is useless. You can stop the boat
and drift with the winds and currents, but this is rarely comfortable and
always risky. You may be pushed
backwards and lose some hard-won miles or be pushed onto the coast and risk
grounding, not to mention running into cargo ships or fishing boats. When you sail throughout the night, you set
up a watch system with the available crew on board where each person takes a
turn (usually 3 hours, less in bad conditions) being responsible for keeping
the boat moving safely forward while the others sleep. The autopilot is your best friend at night,
allowing you to remain under the spray dodger and out of the wind. You are legally required to maintain a visual
watch at all times, so we don’t spend much time below when we’re on watch. Since we are usually only 2 people on Mareda,
the person not on watch sleeps on the convertible settee in the saloon with a
clear view up to the cockpit and within
easy earshot. The off-watch person also
stays clothed and ready to leap into the cockpit if the other needs help. We almost always put a reef in the sail (to reduce
the sail area to slow down and to heel less) whether it needs one or not, just
in case. The person alone in the cockpit
wears his life vest with a search-and-rescue light attached to it, and stays
tethered to the life lines at all times.
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| Sunset sail (and rushing to port to avoid a night sail !) |
Where do you
sleep? Do you reserve a place in port
ahead of time like a hotel? What if
there’s no room? We stop the boat for the night in ports or
along the coast somewhere sheltered from the wind and wave swell. Ports almost never accept reservations. You simply call up on the phone or the vhf
radio as you get near to port and ask for a berth for the night. The coastal sailing guide books provide
graphics showing the layout of each port, which allows you to find the spot
attributed to you. We’ve almost never
been turned away. If there are no free
berths, you raft up next to someone else, which means you tie up next to a boat
that is tied up next to the dock. These
raft-ups can sometimes be 3 or 4 boats deep !
We have been notified that ports aren’t accepting visitors because of a
regatta or dredging work in the port but if it were a real emergency, they will
always find you a spot.
How do you shower?
We have a shower on board ! This
is a luxury we actually don’t use that often because you end up hosing down
everything in the shower area and you have to wipe everything dry afterwards. Most ports have shower facilities although
they are often none too appealing and the water is never really hot.
How do you do laundry?
Small items are washed by hand.
Synthetics are highly prized.
Occasionally, the port facilities include washing machines. About once a month, we find a laundromat and
wash things “properly”. It’s not so
bad. You can meet some interesting
people in the laundromat !
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| Laundry day ! |
What do you do with
your house while you’re away? What about your mail?
Up until now, the house has been shut up with no electricity or
water. The police are notified of our
absence and our neighbours have keys to the house and keep an eye on
things. All of our bills, taxes, etc.,
are handled via internet or through automatic deduction from our accounts, so
any mail that piles up is 99% junk. Our
biggest problem is the yard, which doesn’t take well to 6 months of neglect
during the growing season. In the
future, we’re thinking of renting the house while we’re away but that has its
own set of headaches. We’re still in the
research phase of that idea.
What about getting
seasick? It happens, but it’s rare now that we know
ourselves and how to cope. We even
“cured” a friend who was sailing with us this summer. He started getting very nauseous and we
immediately covered him up with another jacket and warm cap, put him at the
helm to steer, and gave him ½ of a travel sickness pill. He was laughing and joking within 30
minutes.
Don’t you get scared? It has happened in the past, but
it’s rare now. I don’t remember being
frightened at all this past year since we didn’t have any surprise storms and
we didn’t have boat trouble as we have in the past. There were quite a few
anxious moments, but we’ve learned that a scratch in the hull isn’t the end of
the world and that bearing hours of discomfort while pounding through rough
seas is just part of the game (to be avoided whenever possible.)
What do you do when it
rains? Since we travel with no strict calendar in
mind, we can choose when to cruise. Our
movements are mostly controlled by the wind and sea state rather than rain. If the winds are right and it happens to be
raining, we just cope with it, wearing our foul weather gear and boots.
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| Sailing in the rain is just part of the job sometimes. |
Don’t you get lonely /
feel isolated / miss friends and family? We
don’t get lonely, but we do miss family and friends. Skype and email are
lifesavers when you are lucky enough to have an internet connection. Here in
Europe, the public transportation network of buses, trains, and airports,
allows us to get where we need to be within 48 hours or less in an
emergency. But one of the best things
about cruising is the other cruisers you meet.
Last year along the coast of Spain, we had social events with fellow
cruisers almost every night in every port.
The solidarity and community spirit make up for the lack of contact with
friends back home.